Hot or Cold -Temperature Play
Interested in the world of BDSM, but less the whips, handcuffs and crops? BDSM doesn’t have to be all about pain, it can be a delightful play between altering temperatures – temperature play.
Temperature play can make for a fun sex game while engaging your senses.
What exactly is temperature play?
Temperature play is a type of sensation play that uses hot and cold objects or elements on the body for sensual exploration.
What can use for temperature play?
Use Ice
Holding the ice, trace it down your partner’s body while softly blowing air to make their skin tingle. Trace the ice on their neck, wrists, backs and back of the knees, anywhere.
Use wax
Dripping hot wax on his chest is a pretty sexy picture. However, not any candle will do. Different kind of candles have different burning points and cause burns – the wrong candle can take things from hot to scream very quickly. So, go out to a sex shop and purchase the right candle for temperature play. There are candles designed for sensual play.
There are also massage candles, made from soy wax, that melt into a gorgeous oil.
Tip: It’s recommended that you let the liquid wax cool, blow out the candle, then pour. Remember, that the higher you hold the candle before you pour it the more time air will cool it down before it hits the body.
Tease your partner with hot drips and then move on to a sensual massage.
Use toys
You can use the toys you already own to play with temperature and sensation. Silicon naturally warms quickly. Use warm, never boiling, water or cool water to change the temperature of your toys before start your sensation session.
If you have toys made of metal you can cool them or warm before using them too. Be careful not to submerge your toys in boiling water or freezer as this is not only unsafe, it could destroy your motorised toy.